It's scary to say but that is the truth. Technology which was meant to
make our lives better is rather causing more harm because of misuse.
Partners these days are more compatible with their phones than with
their spouse. We can't live a day without our phones but we can live
without our partners. We are married to our phones. We treat our
phones better than our spouses..

Some of these relationships are built on lies and are deceptive just
because we prefer WhatsApp and Facebook chat to face-to-face
conversation. They do that because they want to have control over
truth. A simple question that should take a second to reply, takes
minutes to be replied just for them to think of lies for you. They
will end up using bad network as excuses. You see them typing for
minutes only for one word to show up, because they have to edit,
delete and think of what they want to type.

People also prefer chats to normal conversation because they want to
be in touch with many people at the same time, you don't even have
their attention how much more their heart. No wonder cheating has
become so common in relationships these days. Such relationships are
filled with lies and secrets.

We are sacrificing conversation for mere internet connection. We
prefer to login online than to meet in person. We expect more from our
phones than our partners. We pay more attention to our phone update
than the changes in our partners.

We want companionship without a demand for friendship. No wonder these
days people want sex without commitment, people want to earn without
being responsible. We are lonely yet afraid of getting closer. We
prefer to be connected than to be intimate.

The phones in our pockets are changing our mindset, belief and heart,
making us see relationship and marriage different from how God created
it. We have our own ideology of marriage, no wonder divorce is on the

The best way of knowing someone is by face to face conversation. Their
body language speaks volume, you will be able to know if they are
telling you the truth or lies, whether they mean what they are telling
you or not, whether they are in love or not, their eyes are the
perfect gateway to their heart.

Our lives are not supposed to depend on mobile phone. The presence of
our partner should be paramount to us. The phone becomes useful when
we are not together with our partners and have to call to check on
them. We should reserve the best conversation for face to face.

We should be alone without depending on the phone, God created us
alone for the purpose of reflection. We reflect on our lives when we
are alone, we make the best and important decision of our lives when
we are alone. If we don't learn to be alone, we will feel more lonely
when we get into relationship.

Married couples, let your presence be felt in each other's company;
when you are together, put away all sorts of gadget and device. It
makes your spouse feel like they are exactly where they are supposed
to be.

Singles dating, please choose conversation instead of just connection.
Reserve your talk for face-to-face than whatsapp and Facebook. If they
can't meet you, it simply means they are not qualified to be your

In conclusion "Don't fool yourself. Don't think that you can be wise
merely by being up-to-date with the times. Be God's fool—that's the
path to true wisdom. What the world calls smart, God calls stupid" - 1
Corinthians 3:19 (MSG).

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